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October 12, 2005 17:30 - Dating A Non Christian

Christian dating non christian is a growing phenonmenon, and unless the great commission ordered by Jesus in the book of Matthew 28:20 is fulfilled, Go, therefore, make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age., the issue of christian meeting a non christian and falling in love with them will always be around.

In fact, I came across this site called Date To Save which I thought was a very interesting way of evangelizing. Before anyone of you start getting religious on me, like many of those in the message board forum on this site has been. Let's examine the Word of God.

Let's look at the book of Matthew again in 7:18-23, A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a rotten tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire. So by their fruits you will know them. "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name? Did we not drive out demons in your name? Did we not do mighty deeds in your name? Then I will declare to them solemnly, 'I never knew you. Depart from me, you evildoers.

You must be thinking that's harsh of Jesus when He made that statement but is He? In fact, Jesus is the most consistent man ever lived. He has never contradicted in what He said. So let's not judge the person behind this site and ask what fruits has she beared thus far.

Personally, I think it's alright to date a non christian provided you know she/he is also willing to receive Christ or at least open to the gospel. Dating a non christian is not without risk, not that I am saying dating christians is going to be any better, but the risk of you walking away from Jesus is there.

Like any smart investors, you must know when to cut lose and this is when it gets tough and ugly especially if you are already emotionally attached to him/her and they are not even willing to visit your church.

Let me tell you a secret, my wife was the person who led me to Christ, and in fact some of the girls I dated in the past were christians too! And some credits should go to those girls too, for the seed they had planted in my life.

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October 20, 2005 15:14 - Christian Girls And Their Struggles...

Read an article today found here on christian teenage girls. Christian singer, Rebecca St. James said in her book, It became apparent that girls were really struggling with appearance-related issues. Girls complained of struggling to look modern but also honoring God.

Are you one of them? In Luke 5:36-39, Jesus's spoke of about parable of the old garment and old wineskin. With the changing of times and cultures, what worked 20 years old ago may not work today anymore. Similarly we as christians must be modern and remain relevant. Though dressing and looking modern has nothing to do with one's spirituality or the lack of it, but how can we become the salt and the light of this earth if we are so out of touch with the world.

How are we to make an impact in the society or the friends around us when we cant make ourselves dress up and look presentable? Jesus did not go around the cities wearing sack cloth with dust covering His head as He preached and heal the sick. Dressing modern does not mean dressing to expose ourselves. It's time to look beautiful for our Lord! It's one of the many things we can do to honor Him.

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October 26, 2005 14:30 - Extremely Useful Bible Verse Tool - It's Free

I came across this piece of really neat software you can download on your PC for free! It’s called InstaVerse because it instantly shows the verse text when you point your mouse to a Bible reference.

Suppose you see John 3:16 on a website (or in an email, or Word document). Just move your mouse over the verse and a window pops up with "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. It also shows the context of the passage, as much before or after the selected text that you would like to see. So when someone includes a verse reference somewhere you can look it up in context.

But that’s not all. Suppose you’re writing an email telling them of all the wonderful benefits of being led by the Lord, and you want to insert the 23rd Psalm in your email. You just type Psalm 23, hit Alt F8, and the whole text appears in your email.

I really do like this little product, and would love for each of you to have it. It is free for the KJV Bible (around $9.99 for other versions). Go to to see a flash demo and download your free copy with the KJV Bible (this is about 9MB to download, so expect it to take some time if you have a dial up connection).

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