No pun intended, but I know more and
more people are losing virginity way before their marriage.
Many have become so casual about virginity and having read
many stories of lost virginity, sex has been reduced to just
another physical activity that one engages in for physical
release, or for a sense of love and intimacy.
And if you ever attempt to go into a relationship without
setting your standards on sex, you are set up to fall.
The truth is every christian singles that I ever met, know
that premarital sex is a no-no, but many give in to it
anyway, what kind of moral logic is there when passion and
emotion is at work.
Sex gets better and better if you wait till
marriage. Yes you read that right, from the stories of
lost virginity, you hear of guys and girls getting
disillusioned with sex and don't have fulfilling sex lives
even as they go into marriages.
Something begins to breed in us, in our spirit as we give
in to our flesh, it's lust not love. And yes it's true, if
you wait till marriage, sex is probably not going to be
swell when you are engaging in it for the first time, but it
does get better and better.
What if you have already lose your virginity and you
are not married?
The thought of knowing that you
are not longer a virgin will play on you for a while, but
let's take comfort from the Word of God, Roman 8:1, There is
therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ
Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Decide to walk after the Spirit today and sin no more.
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